Use the No Talking Rule to Get Your Ex Back

After the end of a relationship, your top goal may be to get your ex back. In case he hasn’t found anyone else, you’ll probably also try to stay close so that doesn’t happen. Now, this will keep you at the forefront of his mind, but it won’t be in the way you want it to be.

He’s going to be annoyed that you constantly follow him around or keep calling or texting him. That’s why you’re going to need to learn about the no talking rule and how to use it to your advantage.

The thing you need to realize is that your ex has been using this no talking rule with regard to you ever since he broke up with you. No doubt, he hasn’t been taking your calls, or replying to your texts or emails. This is to ensure that he doesn’t have to deal with the indignity of your crying and begging. No one really wants to have to listen to that and it won’t endear you to him.

Consider how his ignoring you is making you feel. It’s probably making you a bit crazy because it only makes you want him more. This is something that can work both ways. You can make him want you back simply by sticking to the no talking rule. However, you’ll need the strength, willpower and discipline to follow it.

Your ex isn’t having any trouble ignoring you because he’s either angry or hurt over the breakup and just really doesn’t want to talk to you at the moment. You, on the other hand, desperately want him back, so it will be more difficult for you to not try to contact him. But if you keep the main goal firmly in mind, which is to get your ex back, it might make it easier for you to stick to your guns.

Now, don’t think you can do this for only a few days and expect him to return to you with open arms. You’ll need lots of patience to stay away from him until he starts to miss you. This will be well worth the effort once you have him firmly back in your grasp and professing his love for you again. That’s why you must give this no talking rule time to take effect.

It may not be as hard as you think because many times your ex may already be sorry about the breakup and just not wanting to admit it. You’ll push that feeling a bit more when you do things like completely deleting him from your FaceBook page, changing your phone number and not replying to any emails that he might send.

All you want to do is remove yourself from his life for as long as it takes to miss you. He’ll also start to believe that you’ve moved on and HE will start fearing that he’s lost you forever. Men tend to love more from a distance. Once you achieve that distance, he’ll love you once again.

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