Don’t Forget to Say I Love You

Many men still have problems saying what they feel unless it’s some form of anger that they’re experiencing. This is responsible for many relationship issues because, whether you like it or not, women LIKE hearing that their men care about them. Yes, that’s right, men. You’re going to HAVE to say I love you.

At this moment, you’re most likely protesting loudly that you do things like clean up after yourself, do the laundry, cook meals, and buy her things for those special occasions. In addition, you’re 100 percent faithful and never look at other women. You have a good job and do your part financially. Now, aren’t those things showing your women that you love them? Sure, it does show them. But you still have to SAY it once in a while.

That doesn’t mean that you can just respond with “Me, too” when she says “I love you.” This doesn’t cut it and you’ve probably seen that hurt look on her face more than once. Yes, you know the one and YOU caused it to be there. Does it really take anything away from you to say those three tiny words once in a while? What would you do if she were on her deathbed and said “I love you?” Would you really let her go into the great beyond with nothing from you except a “Me, too?” If you’re even considering that question, shame on you!

For those men among you that feel it’s not “manly” to say “I love you,” think again. Even those men that are huge Nascar fans, hunt for two or three weeks every season, work on cars, indulge in bodybuilding and never miss a single football game of their favorite teams find time to work in the occasional “I love you” to their wives and girlfriends. So what’s wrong with you that you can’t find it within yourself to tell the woman that’s supposed to be the most important person in your life how you feel about her?

It may be that you have intimacy issues that keep you from being able to make yourself that vulnerable to the one person on earth that you should trust the most. She must have been a very patient and understanding woman to be with you even though you never tell her you love her. Think about how much SHE must love YOU if she’s with you in spite of the fact that you don’t say “I love you.” Doesn’t she deserve to hear that from you at least sometimes?

Something else you should consider while you’re making up excuses for why you don’t say those important words is that there ARE men in the world that don’t have your paralysis. They tell their women they love them all the time! If you don’t start stepping up to the plate once in a while, your wife or girlfriend may find a man who WILL say “I love you,” and won’t keep her guessing as to how he feels. If that happens, you may wish you had spoken up.

Why Women Prefer Bad Boys Over Nice Guys

You hear the phrase over and over again, “Nice guys finish last.” While they don’t ALWAYS finish last, there’s definitely a reason that this phrase was coined in the first place. The majority of the time, women DO seem to prefer “bad boys” over nice guys, and there are reasons as to why they do. Have a look at this list to get a better idea:

• They don’t seem real: The big problem with nice guys is that they are just too nice. In fact, they’re so nice that they come off as almost saintly. No one is THAT perfect. So it actually makes you wonder a bit about a really nice guy. Bad boys do a lot better at “keeping it real.” Nice guys don’t want to cause any commotion.
• Respect: Can you really respect a doormat? Nice guys let women do whatever they want. A bad boy refuses to let women control him or walk all over him. Women have trouble respecting a man they can control. If they can’t respect him, they won’t be attracted to him.
• Nice guys are too predictable: People like to step outside of their own boring and predictable existences and experience something new and exciting. Nice guys are always predictable. There’s no challenge or excitement there. Bad boys always present a challenge.
• Nice guys don’t need fixing: Bad boys nearly always need some “work” done on them, and women do love a great project. Women set about trying to create the perfect man out of the bad boy. They feel if they can do this, that he’ll always stay with them. Besides, they don’t have to pay attention to what needs fixing with them if they’re busy fixing their bad boys.
• Afraid of intimacy: When a woman fears intimacy, subconsciously she knows she doesn’t have to deal with it when she’s with a bad boy. A nice guy eventually will want her to commit and that can be frightening.
• Low self-esteem: Some women aren’t comfortable with people that treat them better than they treat themselves. When you don’t think much of yourself, bad boys just reinforce that negative opinion. A nice guy treats you in a way you don’t understand.
• Sex is better with a bad boy: Women tend to feel that nice guys aren’t going to be good at having sex. Sometimes women just like to be manhandled a bit and feel that nice guys can’t take control in the bedroom. Bad boys leave no doubt that they can run the show even when it’s not true.
• Bad boys are hot: Rarely do you come across bad boys that aren’t hot. There are some, but not that many. If they weren’t hot, they couldn’t get by with all the stuff they do. On the other hand, when a woman says someone is a nice guy, she actually sometimes may mean that he’s not hot.

It may be a bit clearer now as to why nice guys have to work a bit harder when it comes to getting the women of their dreams. Guys need to loosen up a bit and try being that bad boy for a change.

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