Don’t Forget to Say I Love You

Many men still have problems saying what they feel unless it’s some form of anger that they’re experiencing. This is responsible for many relationship issues because, whether you like it or not, women LIKE hearing that their men care about them. Yes, that’s right, men. You’re going to HAVE to say I love you.

At this moment, you’re most likely protesting loudly that you do things like clean up after yourself, do the laundry, cook meals, and buy her things for those special occasions. In addition, you’re 100 percent faithful and never look at other women. You have a good job and do your part financially. Now, aren’t those things showing your women that you love them? Sure, it does show them. But you still have to SAY it once in a while.

That doesn’t mean that you can just respond with “Me, too” when she says “I love you.” This doesn’t cut it and you’ve probably seen that hurt look on her face more than once. Yes, you know the one and YOU caused it to be there. Does it really take anything away from you to say those three tiny words once in a while? What would you do if she were on her deathbed and said “I love you?” Would you really let her go into the great beyond with nothing from you except a “Me, too?” If you’re even considering that question, shame on you!

For those men among you that feel it’s not “manly” to say “I love you,” think again. Even those men that are huge Nascar fans, hunt for two or three weeks every season, work on cars, indulge in bodybuilding and never miss a single football game of their favorite teams find time to work in the occasional “I love you” to their wives and girlfriends. So what’s wrong with you that you can’t find it within yourself to tell the woman that’s supposed to be the most important person in your life how you feel about her?

It may be that you have intimacy issues that keep you from being able to make yourself that vulnerable to the one person on earth that you should trust the most. She must have been a very patient and understanding woman to be with you even though you never tell her you love her. Think about how much SHE must love YOU if she’s with you in spite of the fact that you don’t say “I love you.” Doesn’t she deserve to hear that from you at least sometimes?

Something else you should consider while you’re making up excuses for why you don’t say those important words is that there ARE men in the world that don’t have your paralysis. They tell their women they love them all the time! If you don’t start stepping up to the plate once in a while, your wife or girlfriend may find a man who WILL say “I love you,” and won’t keep her guessing as to how he feels. If that happens, you may wish you had spoken up.

Journaling to Deal With a Breakup

The end of a relationship can be one of the most painful and devastating experiences of your life. It’s hard to know how to handle pain that’s as severe as this can be. You may want to scream, cry and break things. That’s a natural response and it may even be encouraged as long as you don’t hurt yourself or anyone else in the process.

However, there is another way to help yourself get through this very rough time and it’s probably something you never thought of. This particular aid to your grief is called journaling.

Writing has always been known to be very therapeutic because you’re getting your feelings out even if they aren’t directed at the person you feel has hurt you. The good thing, though, is that you can say anything you want. Whatever you’re thinking and feeling, you can write it down for your eyes only. No one else will see what you’ve written unless you decide to show it to someone else. Having a journal that you can write in is something that can make you feel a lot better once you’ve gotten everything out of your system.

Journaling is also very helpful when your ex refuses to talk to you anymore or have any contact at all with you. This enables you to write out everything that you’re feeling about having been discarded and abandoned. You can be brutally honest in your journal about what happened.

This is particularly helpful if you were the one that was actually at fault. For instance, if you cheated on your ex and got caught, this is a great place to rationalize why you cheated on someone that you truly love. Maybe by writing it all out, you can come to a conclusion as to why it all happened.

If you are the partner that was wronged, writing it down is a great way to work through everything. Try to analyze why these things happened to you and what part you may have played in the break up. Look at it from all angles and see what you could have done differently. As you’re figuring all this out, write it down so that you can see in front of you what mistakes you don’t need to repeat.

Many times, just taking the time to write in a journal will clarify things in a way that you may not have seen if you had not taken the time to write it all down. You may learn some very important things in doing this. When you see mistakes that have been made, it’s easier to not repeat those. You may even spot problematic patterns that keep rearing their ugly heads over and over again. If you can do that, you’ll head off a lot of unforeseeable relationship issues.

If you’ve just been through a difficult breakup, or even if the breakup happened a long time ago and you’re not over it, write about it in your journal. No matter how long or short it’s been since your breakup, writing about it in your journal can still offer some much needed help.

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