Signs that Your Woman is Cheating on You

Everyone knows that men cheat all the time. It’s almost like it’s in their DNA or something. If it’s genetic, they just can’t help themselves, right?  While that’s probably a lot of nonsense, something else to consider is that women also cheat. They may not cheat quite as much as men, but they DO step out on their men for various reasons. Sometimes they’re better at hiding it than their cheating male counterparts, though. There are signs, however, that you can look for if you think your woman may be cheating on you. They include:

• Accusing YOU of cheating: This is a way of diverting the guilt from herself to you. Even worse, is if you’ve cheated on her before, she may give herself permission to get even with you by cheating. Either way, she knows what she’s done and figures that you may be doing the same thing.
• Starting to look her best when she goes out: When you notice your partner suddenly dressing to the nines when she’s supposedly going grocery shopping or to the gym, you may want to investigate why she needs to look so gorgeous.
• Telling you she needs some space: While this doesn’t always mean she’s cheating, it can mean that she wants you out of the way so she’ll be free to meet a lover.
• Hinting that she’s not happy: If your partner is telling you things like she needs more romance in her life, and that she loves things like getting flowers and love notes, you need to take her seriously. You see, if YOU don’t hear what she’s telling you, someone ELSE WILL.
• Making a new best friend that you’ve never met: In this case, it’s not so much that she’s made a new best friend and you’ve never met this friend, it’s that she’s suddenly spending lots of time with this new friend. In addition, she always has an excuse for why it’s not a good time to meet her.
• Changing her plans at the very last minute: For example, she’s gone out for a night on the town with the new best friend that you’ve never met and calls you around midnight with some excuse for why she’s just going to crash at her friend’s place for the night.
• Your friends are telling you she’s cheating: Of course you don’t want to believe something like that, and she’s told you it’s not true. However, if more than one person tells you they know she’s cheating, it’s probably true.
• Suddenly wanting to keep close tabs on you: When your woman is cheating on you, she needs to make sure that she’s not likely to run into you while she’s doing it.
• Making excuses for not having sex: This should be a huge red flag, especially if she was always raring to go in the past. Now, all of a sudden, she’s too tired, doesn’t feel well, or has the most frequent and longest periods in history.
• Has no interest in the relationship: She probably doesn’t care enough to even argue with you anymore.

You may think that these are all pretty obvious signs of cheating but you would be surprised at how many of them that men actually miss.

Things Men Say and What They REALLY Mean

There’s actually a sort of code when men say certain things to women. The problem is that women aren’t usually clued in as to what these guys are really saying. So it’s time to have a look at some of these things in case your guy starts saying any of them to you. At least you’ll be a bit more prepared the next time you hear one of these phrases uttered by your man:

-  “I’ve decided to begin therapy.” For many men, this is definitely a step in the right direction. If he has issues and has recognized that fact, then going into therapy is huge. However, what can start happening now is that he gains an ally. This ally is probably going to be totally pro-him and anti-you. He may start coming home from his appointments sharing his feelings with you. The problem is that these feelings are full of all the things you do that are wrong and detrimental to him.

-  “I’m not in the mood to have sex.” This is a huge red flag because most guys tend to want to have sex all the time. Now granted, they may have an off day here and there, but if this is turning into an every night thing and you’re better acquainted with your shower massager than your man, it’s time to get to the bottom of his issue. If you can’t, it may be time to move on.

-  “I can’t seem to stop crying.” Men that are in touch with their emotions are wonderful to be with. However, there can be a limit to just how many tears you want to see. For a death in the family, sure, he’s going to cry. But do you really want him to be sitting beside you sobbing in a public theater at a romance movie? If you’re starting to feel like you’re the man in the relationship, you might need to find a real man of your own.

-  “I just turned in my two week notice at work.” This one can be wonderful if he follows it up with sharing his plans for a great new career that he’s decided to embark upon. In fact, you probably couldn’t be happier for BOTH of you. However, if he doesn’t seem to have any other job prospects in mind and hasn’t shared how he plans to pay his portion of the bills, if you’re living together, then you may have a problem. He may be expecting you to play Mommy to him and take care of everything.

-  “There’s something I need to tell you.” When a guy says this to you, brace yourself because something bad is coming. These conversations never end well.

-  “I think we need to take a break.” The relationship is over but he just doesn’t have the nerve to tell you. So he takes the wimpy way out. In fact, he may already have another girl on the side that you just haven’t found out about. Do him a favor and end the relationship permanently.

Signs that You’re Dating a Cheater

There’s usually at least one point in your life where you accidentally run into a man that seems just perfect for you. He’s gorgeous, sexy, attentive, sends you flowers, says all the right things, and the list just keeps going on and on. It’s not long before you start to fall head over heels for him. Then, the more time you spend with him and the more you date him, you start to notice little things that just don’t quite add up.

Sure, you may have ignored them in the beginning because he was just so everything that you ever wanted, but now, there is some definite weirdness present. Have a look at the following list of signs that may point to the fact that Mr. Perfect is, instead, Mr. Dog:

• He won’t accept your friend request on Facebook. Granted, he’s entitled to his privacy, but if he REALLY wants to be private, why does he have a Facebook page anyway? However, the real question is what’s so private that you can’t see it but other people can?
• The only places he takes you are new ones. The two of you never go anywhere that he has been before, and it seems that he takes great pains to make sure that doesn’t happen. Could it be that he doesn’t want someone he knows to see him with you?
• None of his close friends are women. You may have met some guy friends of his, but there doesn’t seem to be any women in his life that he wants you to meet. This is actually a pretty big red flag. It means there are no women to vouch for the fact that he’s a good guy.
• He never answers his phone when you call. Now, there may be plenty of text messages or he’ll call you, but when you call him, you never get an answer. This begs the question of who is with or what is he doing that he cannot answer the phone when you call.
• He’s a clock watcher when you’re together. Not only that, but his idea of times to go out or see each other is really odd. He really might have a job with weird hours, but if he only wants to take you out when other people are in bed, or he cancels at the last minute a lot, you should question it.
• You’ve never been to his place. Every time you go out, you always end up at your place or a high end hotel. Even when you ask to see where he lives, he always has an excuse.  Now, if he DOES take you to his place and there are some feminine things laying around or there are womanly knickknacks and decorations, either he’s really in touch with his feminine side or he’s got a woman in his life already.
• He never asks you to do girlfriend things. If he’s going to hear his friend’s band play without you, why doesn’t he want you to meet?

These are some definite red flags that you just may be dating a cheater. Don’t ignore them.