Signs that You’re Dating a Cheater

There’s usually at least one point in your life where you accidentally run into a man that seems just perfect for you. He’s gorgeous, sexy, attentive, sends you flowers, says all the right things, and the list just keeps going on and on. It’s not long before you start to fall head over heels for him. Then, the more time you spend with him and the more you date him, you start to notice little things that just don’t quite add up.

Sure, you may have ignored them in the beginning because he was just so everything that you ever wanted, but now, there is some definite weirdness present. Have a look at the following list of signs that may point to the fact that Mr. Perfect is, instead, Mr. Dog:

• He won’t accept your friend request on Facebook. Granted, he’s entitled to his privacy, but if he REALLY wants to be private, why does he have a Facebook page anyway? However, the real question is what’s so private that you can’t see it but other people can?
• The only places he takes you are new ones. The two of you never go anywhere that he has been before, and it seems that he takes great pains to make sure that doesn’t happen. Could it be that he doesn’t want someone he knows to see him with you?
• None of his close friends are women. You may have met some guy friends of his, but there doesn’t seem to be any women in his life that he wants you to meet. This is actually a pretty big red flag. It means there are no women to vouch for the fact that he’s a good guy.
• He never answers his phone when you call. Now, there may be plenty of text messages or he’ll call you, but when you call him, you never get an answer. This begs the question of who is with or what is he doing that he cannot answer the phone when you call.
• He’s a clock watcher when you’re together. Not only that, but his idea of times to go out or see each other is really odd. He really might have a job with weird hours, but if he only wants to take you out when other people are in bed, or he cancels at the last minute a lot, you should question it.
• You’ve never been to his place. Every time you go out, you always end up at your place or a high end hotel. Even when you ask to see where he lives, he always has an excuse.  Now, if he DOES take you to his place and there are some feminine things laying around or there are womanly knickknacks and decorations, either he’s really in touch with his feminine side or he’s got a woman in his life already.
• He never asks you to do girlfriend things. If he’s going to hear his friend’s band play without you, why doesn’t he want you to meet?

These are some definite red flags that you just may be dating a cheater. Don’t ignore them.