What Do Men Really Want?

First and foremost men want a companion that is exciting and fun. They want someone who will share their activities – recreation, sports, outdoors, and other entertainment. Men want to enjoy their time with their woman while building the bond that creates a relationship of companionship.

One of the other things that men really want that is a top priority is a passionate and frequent sex partner. They will be monogamous if that one woman can be different women in the bedroom – sometimes playful, sometimes domineering, sometimes submissive, but always inventive and willing to experiment. A man loves a woman who talks during sex and who accepts that it’s okay to try new things. Men really want a physical connection with their mate in order to make that emotional connection they crave as well.

Men really want to share the companionship of a nice meal together. They enjoy cooking together and dining together, but they also love to know that a woman cares enough about them to prepare a nice meal for them.

Men also really want a woman to help them in their career, by supporting their work efforts, not making them feel like they’re having to choose between the relationship and the job. Men really want a woman to help build up their confidence, to understand them and listen to their grievances without criticism or critique. Men want to be admired for their financial and career success.

Men want women to look good, especially out in public. They don’t necessarily want a Barbie doll, but they do want someone attractive, clean, slim, and well dressed. They especially want a woman who appeals to the man’s friends but doesn’t flirt with them. Part of the reason that a man really wants a woman to look good on the outside, besides the sexual attraction a man feels towards his woman that looks physically great, is that a woman who knows she looks great feels confident, and women who give off an aura of confidence are attractive, and women of which the men they’re with can be proud.

Men also really want their privacy. They want some time to be left alone, to work on their hobbies or watch the game, and spend time in the company of other men. Men often want a few minutes of quiet unwinding after arriving home from work. During these few minutes they don’t want to be bombarded by “How was your day dear?” or “You won’t believe what happened to me today.” Generally a man who doesn’t share his day or ask questions when the two of you first meet at the end of a busy workday is not uninterested in your life or unwilling to share with you about his. He’s just winding down from the stress, and will, after a short respite, become you’re good-listening, talkative companion once again.